"Happy Thanksgiving." This is something I am sure we all hear often this time of year but does it really mean anything to anybody any more. Just look around, the economy is in shambles, many people are without jobs, the government is divided, and the Dallas Cowboys lost! Personally, I have a job that challenges me every day, a healthy growing family, as well as tests and trials, so what should be my mindset on Thanksgiving?

When I look around me I don't things are not always "black and white" when it comes to having a Thanksgiving mindset. This country has become accustomed to so much material wealth and prosperity that even in times of financial crisis we continue with many of the lifestyle habits that not only contradict a true Thanksgiving attitude but also contribute to the financial downturn. Ironically, over the years we have moved further and further away from giving thanks on the day of Thanksgiving. Think about it, what would Thanksgiving be these days without our fixation on turkey, football, gluttony, and Black Friday?

Personally, I am tired of the cycle. This year I am going to be thankful for my faith, family, friends, employment, health, and everything else that comes along with them even if it kills me. I refuse to fall into the trap of overeating and regretting it on the scale. I refuse to be glued to the TV watching football while ignoring all of the family members sitting around me. I refuse to be influenced by the commercials and advertisements dead set on getting me to want more and buy more of the latest greatest gadgets. I also refuse to continue wasting precious time away from what matters most in my life. First I will strive to live a thankful week. Then I will look forward to experiencing a thankful month. Ultimately, I am going to try to avoid all of the things that have come to symbolize Thanksgiving. Now I am not talking about the things we say this day represents, but the things that have come the represent Thanksgiving today. Here is to really giving thanks on the day of Thanksgiving!